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Solve Child Behavior Problems With Your Inner Parenting Expert

By Bob Lancer   |  Monday, March 12th, 2012

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Raising Successful Kids

To raise successful kids, don’t worry about them… BELIEVE in them.

In your quest for great parenting resources, you need look no further than at your own mind.

 

Your own subconscious contains profound answers to your parenting questions.

 

You have a great parenting expert inside of you!

 

To access your own expert parenting advice remember this:

What you envision comes to pass.  This proves true in every area of life, including raising kids.

 

To raise successful kids, don’t worry about them… BELIEVE in them.

 

You will enjoy the results of better parenting by envisioning your child behaving beautifully rather than behaving terribly.

 

When you envision your child as calm, confident, caring and capable, your subconscious responds by guiding you from within, showing you what to do to help your child in line with bringing that wonderful child development outcome about.

 

When we worry about our child’s behavior or character, we mentally picture our child demonstrating behavior problems and character weaknesses in the future.

 

This negative mental vision of the child blocks our subconscious capacity to provide us with wise parenting help for positive child development.  As a consequence of this blockage, we feel powerless, anxious, and out of control in the parent-child relationship.

 

Child Development

You will enjoy the results of better parenting by envisioning your child behaving beautifully rather than behaving terribly.

To employ the power of positive vision for raising children to fulfill their great potential, apply the following positive parenting tip: mentally reverse your child’s behavior problem.

 

For instance, if your child displays too much physical aggression, envision your child calmly behaving in a caring, self-contained manner.

 

If your child displays severe emotional breakdowns on a routine basis, provide your child with behavior help by mentally picturing your child demonstrating terrific emotional balance and healthy self-control.

 

When we worry about our child’s behavior, we envision behavior problems and thus make it harder to raise responsible kids.

 

But to solve or avoid child behavior problems, envision the way you would expect your child to behave if you solved those problems.This is how to access the parenting wisdom of your inner parenting expert.

 

Please feel welcome to share your comments in this blog about this parenting advice, and any questions you have about using the power of mental vision to help your kids display beautiful behavior.

 

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Parenting Advice For How To Be A “Lucky Parent”

By Bob Lancer   |  Wednesday, March 7th, 2012

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child behavior and child development

The fact is that parent-success is not a matter of luck. Parenting well produces well-behaved children.

The other day someone said to me, “You are really lucky with your 9 year old son. He behaves wonderfully because he came out as a very special child.”

 

My response was, “In my 25 years of teaching parenting skills, I’ve never seen a child who did NOT express the same beautiful spirit you are referring to in my child. But as the parent influences the child development process through the quality of the parent-child relationship, a very ‘difficult child’ may be the result.”

 

Largely because of my deep studies of and our shared interest in child behavior and child development my wife and I have practiced very conscious parenting.

 

The core of our “parenting style” has been to honor our children’s sacred heart, to relate compassionately with their feelings, even when we need to firmly establish a boundary.

 

In the course of my professional parenting education practice I have seen countless moms and dads making serious and all too common parenting mistakes that engendered destructive behavior and emotional problems in their child’s development process.”

 

One core purpose behind my positive parenting classes and the conscious approach to child discipline that I teach is to help parents understand how to AVOID raising kids in ways that produce emotional difficulties and behavior problems.

 

The fact is that parent-success is not a matter of luck.   Parenting well produces well-behaved children.  You can always find problematic parenting practices occurring in the history of children who demonstrate seriously problematic behavior.

 

But there are those prefer to believe that how a kid behaves is a matter of pure luck.  They adhere to this view, perhaps, because it absolves them from a painful sense of responsibility for their children’s problems.

 

Anyone who counts on luck to succeed usually ends up unsuccessful.  This applies to parenting success as well to every other area of life.

 

Better Parenting For Healthy Child Behavior

Be the ray of light as parents to help your kids sparkle and shine

To be among the “lucky parents” you might begin by paying closer attention to your child’s feelings during your parent-child interactions.

 

Keep your heart open and sensitive to your child’s deepest feelings, instead of reacting to child discipline problems with anger and stress.

 

As you begin nurturing your child’s tender heart through more conscious, compassionate parenting you will raise a happier child who displays more beautiful behavior.

 

Do YOU believe that parenting success is really just a matter of luck?

Help struggling parents, and those who believe that better parenting skills produce better-behaved children, by sharing in this blog some of the parenting mistakes you feel that you have made, and what you wish you had done instead.


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Create Life-Balance To Raise Happy Children

By Bob Lancer   |  Thursday, March 1st, 2012

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Parenting Classes For Raising Happy Children

Create happier times with your kids to deepen and strengthen family bonding.

 

At one of my recent parenting classes, I discussed the need for a deep heart-connection in the parent-child relationship.

 

“As we nurture children emotionally,” I explained,“their behavior expresses more loving kindness and healthy self-esteem than when kids feel emotionally deprived.”

 

A parent in the class raised her hand and posed this common parenting problem:  “In today’s world, when both parents need to work full time, and jobs often demand more than the old, standard 40 hours a week, we’re not able to give our kids the quality time they need.”

 

My response to that addressed the creative power and responsibility of every one of us:

 

“Your circumstances are a product of your own creation.  You have the power to create the life-balance to support the emotional development of your child.

 

“I know parents who have made huge financial sacrifices to be able to provide their children with all the quality time their kids need.

 

Raising Happy Children

“You empower yourself to succeed relative any goal by seeing yourself as the creator of your circumstances, not as a victim of your circumstances.

“Others found creative ways to maintain a high income while meeting the emotional needs of their children.

 

“You empower yourself to succeed relative any goal by seeing yourself as the creator of your circumstances, not as a victim of your circumstances.

 

“Though you may not know what you can do right now to improve the balance of your life, begin by clearly defining life-balance as your goal and commit to making it happen.

 

“In the meantime, if you cannot increase the quantity of time you spend with your kids, improve the quality of the precious time that you do have with them.

 

“Practice connecting with your children in a more conscious and loving way when you are together. Create happier times with your kids to deepen and strengthen family bonding.”

 

“Turn every moment you spend with your daughter into a kind of parenting class by closely observing her, in order to improve your understanding of your child. This is how to better meet your child’s need for a deep heart-connection in the parent-child relationship

 

Please feel welcome to share your comments in this blog about this parenting advice, and any questions you have about overcoming the challenge to providing children with all the quality time they need from us to feel great and to display beautiful behavior.


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