âThe deeds of the children are a testament to the upbringing they received from their parents.â
Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â ~ Christopher Paolini
In order to build a strong child parent relationship, parents and children need to spend time together having fun.
Think back to your own childhood and decide which memories are the best ones. Were they the times that you were having fun with your family or were the times that you were being told to clean your room, lower your radio or do your homework?
The fondest memories are always of good times and your kids deserve to have great memories. It is more difficult for working parents to allot the time for fun activities with their kids but it is essential if they wish to create a lifelong bond with them.
Itâs a known fact that kids love to do crafts. They enjoy taking a variety of items and making them into pieces of art. It is a great technique to instill wisdom in children Also, parents and children can have a great time creating things for holidays and events. It also provides you ample opportunities to teach your child discipline while inspiring creativity in them.
You can create a special craft for every month. Whether you are making a collage of autumn leaves for Thanksgiving or a beautiful bouquet of crepe paper flowers, the time that you spend together will improve your parent child relationship.
âChildren’s games are hardly games. Children are never more serious than when they play.â
Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â ~ Montaigne
Parents and children should find the time to play together daily. You donât need to set aside a lot of time for play but fifteen minutes to an hour before or after dinner should be sufficient for weekdays. Play could be tossing the baseball back and forth, a game of checkers or simply thumb wrestling.
The activity really doesnât matter so long as you interact. This will improve your parent child relationship. Working parents tend to tell their kids they are too tired to play but those parents need to wake up and realize that their childrenâs lives will pass them by if they donât take the time to enjoy them now.
Weekly Game Night
Many parents and children enjoy playing board games together. Not only is this a good time to improve a parent child relationship but it can also be an educational activity. A lot of board games force the child to count, to read or make strategic decisions. These skills can help your child with his academic achievements too.
A childâs self-esteem can also be improved while playing board games with his family. Working parents should make the time to play games with their kids. They also need to shut off their cell phones and use the time to bond with their kids and work on the parent child relationship.
The Annual Family Vacation
All parents and children start looking forward to their next vacation as soon as they arrive home from the one they were just on. Letâs face it; people love their vacations. After working hard all year long, families should be excited to spend time together away from home.
Experiencing new places, people and things is fun for both parents and children. Leaving the day to day grind of work and school is refreshing and rejuvenating. The annual family vacation should be âin the worksâ at least six months before it actually happens.
You should select a few destinations that are within your budget and then hold a family meeting. At this meeting, both parents and children should state their opinions about each vacation spot and why they think that their choice is best.
Of course, the ultimate decision will be yours alone but it is nice to include the kids and take their opinions and ideas seriously. You very well might be surprised at the choices that they make for family vacation time.